What is the most important thing we can do for another? Accept them as a friend! What happens when we try to change them? A wall forms between the two people that becomes thicker with time. It is hard work to change someone who doesn’t want to be their own leader taking responsibility to grow. Here is how to help – walk alongside helping the other person reach their agenda, their dream, their goal. Put whatever is yours away! Help that person grow into their own finer version.